Friday, October 8, 2021

Soundtrack of my life: The best love song ever written

It happened at HemisFair.
Paul Simon was a major contributor to the soundtrack of my life.

For my money, he was the best songwriter of his era. He captured perfectly the angst and disillusionment of the times, and his lyrics are sheer poetry.

“Sounds of Silence” is an anthem of the Sixties, and “The Boxer” is a transcendent testament to the strength of the human spirit and the importance of perseverance in the face of diversity and criticism. “Bridge Over Troubled Water” is a soaring hymn of our need to care for each other in times of trouble and travail.

But it is his love songs that I treasure most. And of them, “Kathy’s Song” is my favorite. It’s often overlooked, and that’s a damned shame because it is – simply perfect.

It reminds me of a Kathy I knew back in those long-lost days. We met in San Antonio during the seven-month run of HemisFair ’68, a world exposition that celebrated the cultures of the Americas. Its fairgrounds still exist.

I fell hard for Kathy, as only a 17-year-old can. And it says more about me than her that she remained blissfully unaware. Years later, when I told her of my infatuation – at a celebration of her engagement, no less – Kathy greeted the news with a tender look. “I never knew,” she said.

It’s the best love song ever written. Find a better one – I dare you.

So you see, I have come to doubt

All that I once held as true.

I stand alone without beliefs.

The only truth I know is you.

And as I watch the drops of rain

Weave their weary paths and die,

I know that I am like the rain.

There but for the grace of you, go I. 

Simon & Garfunkel - Kathy's Song - YouTube

Soundtrack of my life: Love, sweet and tender

She wore my senior ring.
 Sweet Judy Blue Eyes. We met in English class in my senior year at Big Spring High School.

She sat across the classroom from me, and I admired her from afar for most of the school year – too timid and unsure of myself to approach her. She had straw-colored hair, which billowed about her face in a meticulously styled cloud, and shockingly clear blue eyes the shade of the West Texas sky as it darkens into early evening.

It took me most of that year to drum up the courage to ask her out, and I was shocked and bewildered when she accepted. By graduation, she was wearing my senior ring – taped heavily to fit on her slender finger. It meant, in the customs of the day, that we were “going steady.”

As we sat with our senior classmates on the field of Memorial Stadium on that May night in 1969, sweating in our graduation robes, she was wearing that ring. I sat tall and proud, still amazed that she had chosen me.

We spent that night together – also a custom of the time for graduating seniors – driving around town, chatting merrily with other couples and spending a few hours in a quiet spot on Signal Mountain east of town in a profound, but completely innocent, interlude. At sunrise, we attended a senior breakfast at a classmate’s home, and I dropped her off at her parents’ house.

I was a clumsy, inexperienced and largely befuddled boyfriend so it’s not surprising the relationship lasted only a few weeks into that summer. She was going to Baylor in the fall, and I was fated to remain in Big Spring to attend community college. We both knew it was impossible. Fate, as they say, is inexorable, and we parted to go our separate ways. My heart was broken.

In September of that year, Crosby, Stills & Nash released “Suite Judy Blue Eyes” – a song Stephen Stills wrote for Judy Collins. Ever since, I have associated the song with my own Sweet Judy Blues Eyes.

Is there anything sweeter, more tender, more excruciatingly painful than first love?

It's getting to the point where I'm no fun anymore.

I am sorry.

Sometimes it hurts so badly I must cry out loud.

I am lonely.

I am yours, you are mine, you are what you are.

You make it hard.

Remember what we've said and done and felt about each other.

Oh, babe, have mercy.

Don't let the past remind us of what we are not now.

Crosby, Stills, & Nash - Suite Judy Blue Eyes - YouTube

Soundtrack of my life: The perfect rock song?

 Chilling on my patio, luxuriating in the peace and satisfaction of the successful execution of my lovely daughter’s wedding celebration – and what should come washing over me but the soul-soothing melody of perhaps the perfect rock ’n’ roll song.

It’s Glenn Frey’s glorious "Take It Easy," made immortal by the able assistance of Jackson Brown:

Well, I'm standing on a corner

In Winslow, Arizona

And such a fine sight to see.

It's a girl, my Lord, in a flatbed Ford

Slowin' down to take a look at me.

Come on, baby, don't say maybe.

I gotta know if your sweet love

Is gonna save me.

We may lose, and we may win

Though we will never be here again.

So open up, I'm climbin' in…

Take it easy.

Take It Easy - YouTube

Soundtrack of my life: The song that made Dad cry

Rachel and I dancing to "Somebody's Baby."
At some point late in the wedding planning, Rachel asked me, “What should be the song for the father-daughter dance?”

I answered with my default response to any wedding-related question asked by my daughter or wife. “I dunno. You decide.”

She spent a few minutes checking the internet, then punched up a song. “How about this one?” she asked.

Seeing the tears in my eyes as I recognized the tune, she nodded. “OK, that’s the one.”

And here we are, dancing to Jackson Browne’s “Somebody’s Baby.”

Well, just look at that girl with the lights coming up in her eyes.

She's got to be somebody's baby,

She must be somebody's baby.

All the guys on the corner stand back and let her walk on by.

She's got to be somebody's baby,

She must be somebody's baby,

She's got to be somebody's baby 'cause she's so fine. 


Somebody's Baby - YouTube

Soundtrack of my life: When my hands were steady

A rock tune from long ago comes floating softly over the patio, bringing reflection and a glimmer of tears to an old man who feels the weight of his years pressing down.

I was 18,

Didn't have a care.

Working for peanuts,

Not a dime to spare.

But I was lean and

Solid everywhere,

Like a rock.

 

My hands were steady.

My eyes were clear and bright.

My walk had purpose.

My steps were quick and light.

And I held firmly

To what I felt was right,

Like a rock.

Bob Seger was only 40 when he wrote “Like a Rock.” It topped the charts in 1986.


Like A Rock - YouTube

Soundtrack of my life: Thoughts in my eighth decade

Leonard Cohen on a rainy afternoon…watching the smoke of my cigar rise lazily in the lowering sky and listening to the words of a wise and worldly man:

I’m slowing down the tune.

I never liked it fast.

You want to get there soon,

I want to get there last.

It’s not because I’m old.

It’s not the life I led.

I always liked it slow,

That’s what my momma said.

 


Leonard Cohen - Slow (Audio) - YouTube




Saturday, October 2, 2021

Spoiling the party: Southlake Carroll 49, Keller 13

 
The Dragons remain undefeated in their bid for a return district championship.
Slam the door

KELLER – It was billed as a “battle of the unbeatens.” But it looked more like a total beatdown.

And while Southlake Carroll’s domination of the Keller Indians was total and unquestioned, its ultimate victory did not come without a cost and revealed a vulnerability that the Dragons must address if they are to meet their goal of a deep and fruitful plunge into the postseason.

First, the good news. The Dragon defense continues to shine, slamming the door shut on a Indian offense that coasted to an early lead and appeared briefly poised to match Carroll score for score.

But save for a handful of showy offensive plays during Keller’s initial two possessions, the Dragon D choked the life out of the Indians, intercepting Keller’s quarterbacks three times and limiting its vaulted ground game to a paltry 85 total rushing yards.

Defensive back Logan Anderson was a beast, snaring two Keller interceptions and disrupting the Indian schemes left and right. Linebacker Aaron Scherp snatched a third errant pass in the Keller red zone to set up a Dragon score.

Ruling the field

Meanwhile, its own offense ruled the field – reeling off 42 unanswered points while running backs Owen Allen and James Lehman shredded the Keller front line and compensated nicely for a struggling Kaden Anderson, who completed only 5 of 14 passes. It’s only fair to note, however, that 4 of those completions were for touchdowns, three by RJ Maryland and one by Landon Samson.

As a result, the 6-0 Carroll remains the odds-on favorite to repeat as champion of District 4-6A. It remains No. 1 ranked team in the Dallas-Fort area and the No. 3 ranked in the state. The Indians, who until yesterday’s matchup had been enjoying their best start since 1967, now slide to 5-1.

They had high hopes, the rascals. The game originally was scheduled for Thursday night, but lightning in the area delayed – and then postponed – the game until 2 p.m. yesterday.

Keller High must had dismissed school at noon because the student section was packed. I’ve never seen a bigger crowd at KISD Stadium, a dismal place to watch a football game, even with the addition of a fancy new electronic scoreboard. Lipstick on a pig.

But after a few early flourishes, the Keller fans didn’t have much to cheer about.

Indian quarterbacks Tre Guerra and Matthew Anderson couldn’t penetrate the Dragon secondary. Guerra completed only 5 of 19 completions for 180 yards and one interception, almost all on a pair of plays early in the game. When Anderson replaced him, he did even worse, throwing two interceptions.

Powered downfield

Keller, digging into its trick-or-treat bag early, took only two plays to score first. When Carroll’s first possession stalled, Guerra sent a 71-yard flea-flicker to Seth Henry that the receiver carried to the Dragon 13. On the next play, Guerra connected with Amarion Henry, who grabbed a 6-0 lead for the Indians. They muffed the PAT.

The Dragons responded immediately, powered downfield by Allen’s stout running and capped by his 5-yard scoring plunge that handed Carroll a 7-6 lead.

The Indians’ second and last score came later in the 1st period, when Guerra lofted a 82-yard bomb to Amarion Henry, who carried it into the end zone. The Indians would not enjoy that 13-6 lead long, but in seizing the initiative, the Dragons would endure an unsettling loss.

On their subsequent possession, Allen suffered a sprained ankle as he muscled for more yards. He walked off the field with only a slight limp, but he didn’t return for the rest of the game. Allen ended the day with 65 yards on 12 attempts and 1 touchdown. That breaks his streak of double-scoring games at eight.

Coach Riley Dodge said after the game that the injury was not serious and his talented running back probably would be able to return for next week’s game against Keller Central.

With Allen’s departure, sophomore James Lehman stepped into some rather large cleats and kept the pressure on the reeling Keller defense. He rushed 22 times for 133 yards and two 2nd-quarter TDs: an 8-yard dash that gave the Dragons a 14-13 lead they never relinquished, and a 1-yard plunge that carried Carroll into halftime with a 28-13 lead that sealed Keller’s doom.

But the hard-charging Lehman suffered a shoulder injury in the second half that also took him out of the game. Dodge described it as more serious than the injury to Allen and suggested Lehman may miss some games.

Carried the load

Next up was sophomore Maddux Reid, who ably carried the rushing load until the closing minutes of the game, when backup Austin Page stepped in, the fourth Dragon RB to see substantial playing time against Keller.

The injury roll call was not yet complete, however. Center Walker Anderson, a key member of Carroll O-line, also had to leave the field. The nature, and degree, of his injury isn’t known. And Dragon Radio reported that standout defensive lineman Cade Parks was seen being attended to on the sideline. His status also is unknown.

Yesterday's victory did not come without cost. 
That’s a regrettable and alarming injury toll for a single game. It is testimony, I suppose, to the hard-hitting nature of the contest. Keller may have been over-matched, but it wasn’t a cupcake. It fought to the last whistle.

Despite the lopsided nature of the score, the inability of the Dragons to establish a consistent passing attack helped keep Carroll’s punter busy all afternoon.

The Dragons rolled up a respectable 435 total yards yesterday. But Anderson had trouble all afternoon connecting with his talented receiving corps, particularly on long-pass plays down field. The senior overshot receivers almost a half-dozen times, sending the ball about a foot and a half beyond their grasping hands. Missed opportunities – missed touchdowns.

That was on Dodge’s mind in his post-game interview on Dragon Radio.

Asked what his team needed to work on, Dodge was quick to reply, “We have to have a more balanced offense,” he said, then added, “Our passing game has got to get better.”

They were beauties

It seems strange, does it not, to talk about improving the game of a quarterback who made 4 passing touchdowns yesterday? And those four were beauties. Maryland’s trio included a 32-yarder that gave Carroll a one-score lead, and he captured two more Anderson throws in leaping grabs at the back of the end zone. To finish Carroll scoring, Anderson sailed a 74-yard pass to Samson, who scored after traveling the length of the field down the right sideline.

All of which is fine and good. On the other hand, Anderson finished the game with a puny 36 percent completion ratio and failed to keep drives alive. Carroll punted a season-record of six times yesterday. This Dragon team is too good for that.

Anderson has all the elements he needs to succeed. He has the arm, he has the eye and he has the composure of a top-flight quarterback. He also is graced with an excellent receiving corps, led by South Carolina commit Samson and NFL offspring Maryland.

More than that, he has Riley Dodge.

If anyone can straighten out his game, it will be the former state championship quarterback who learned his trade from another stellar quarterback and coach, his father, Todd Dodge.

 Southlake spoiled the party for Keller yesterday, but it was hardly a surprise. The two school have met 11 times since they entered the UIL’s big-school division. And Carroll has won all 11. It’s a tradition, folks. And you know what we say in Southlake: Protect the Tradition.

Time to heal

With the Indians behind them, the Dragons will turn their attention to Keller Central, which they host next Friday at Dragon Stadium. They should have no problem with the 2-3 Chargers, who fell to Keller 41-7 last week. Perhaps the Central game will give some of Carroll’s battered starters a little extra time to heal.

The real test comes Oct. 21, when Carroll travels to Haslet Eaton to take on the only other unbeaten school in District 4-6A. The Eagles put the hurt to Byron Nelson 45-10 last night and now pose the only serious challenge to the Dragons’ district aspirations.

That said, here’s something to keep in mind. Since Riley Dodge became Carroll head coach, his teams have never lost a district game. Not a single one. I’d say that’s another tradition worth preserving.

Go Dragons!

The Dragons host Keller Central at Dragon Stadium next Friday.